#19 REN WU (壬午): THE GIFT OF IMPATIENCE

Fire at the bottom, Water on top - the geyser perfectly depicts the Ren Wu bazi pillar.

Water at the top, fire at the bottom. What do you get? A geyser, of course, which perfectly represents the energies of the Ren Wu (壬午) pillar. Impulsive, impetuous, and yes, impatient.

Wait a minute, I hear you say. Impatience is a gift? For the longest time, impatience has been given a bad rep. But if tamed and leveraged, it can be one of the best inspiring factors behind your success.

Maximizing The Ren Wu (壬午) Day Master: 5 Steps To Make Impulsiveness Work For You

The Ren Wu individual is like a gushing hot spring filled with passion, intelligence and creativity. This is a pillar where the naturally resourceful nature of the Ren Water combines with the passion and detail-oriented approach of the Ding Fire.

Very receptive to new ideas, this pillar represents ambitious visionaries who dream big and have the resources and organizational skills to make things happen. The Ren Wu is seated on its own Direct Wealth and Direct Officer stars which blesses the pillar with strong business acumen and the ability to wield authority.

But for all its strengths (intelligence, creativity, strong intuition, business acumen and organizational skills), the Ren Wu has got one big Achilles Heel – it’s impulsivity. Yup, it’s that moment when the pressure builds up and the day master explodes like a geyser. But hang on a second. There’s a big difference between Functional Impulsivity versus Dysfunctional Impulsivity.

Functional Impulsivity refers to the ability to act swiftly and seize the opportunities that come your way. Conversely, Dysfunctional Impulsivity leads to erratic behaviour and losing control. In other words, dysfunctional impulsivity are spur-of-the-moment decisions that are not moderated by forethought and logic.

Therefore, the key to maximizing the Ren Wu Day Master, lies in the ability to turn dysfunctional impulsivity into functional impulsivity. Here are five steps:

  1. Increase self-awareness by becoming aware of situations that result in impulsivity. In other words, learn to recognize and understand your triggers.
  2. Once you spot your triggers, give yourself a self-imposed time-out to put some space between yourself and the event.
  3. Find a balancing partner who can help curb those spur-of-the-moment decisions by offering a different perspective.
  4. Put alternative strategies in place. Let me give you an example here. If you have a tendency to blurt out your thoughts in a meeting, try writing them down in a notebook instead. Basically, this step refers to small actions that can modify your behaviour and allow you time to evaluate.
  5. Relax! Realize that impulsive thoughts are never the problem, impulsive actions are.
Where Is The Ren Wu (壬午)?
Spontaneous and Gregarious (Ren Wu In The Year Pillar):

The Ren Wu pillar likes to be surrounded by people. Spontaneous and gregarious, your external circle will perceive you as someone who is always up for an adventure. One of the most outstanding qualities of the Ren Wu is their silver tongue. Know that this pillar has given you a smooth and subtle way of easing people into the comfort zone while engaging in conversation. Now isn’t that a great gift to have?

Challenge Slayer (Ren Wu In The Month Pillar):

Don’t shy away from challenges if you have the Ren Wu in your month pillar. Driven by passion and a thirst for power, wisdom and knowledge, the Ren Water brings the ability to overcome obstacles with determination. You are a person with the resources to undertake any project that stimulates your intellect.

Dynamic and pragmatic at the same time, never doubt the ability of the Ren Wu to slay any challenges in their way.

Making Impatience Work For You (Ren Wu In The Hour Pillar)

Let’s stop looking at impatience as something that needs to be curbed. Instead, let’s look at impatience as something that we can leverage of.

Here’s the thing, patience is easy to adhere to if there is a guarantee at the end. For example, you’ve ordered something online and you know from experience that it will be a couple of days before it reaches your doorstep. It’s not so easy when the goal has not been achieved before.

By that logic, the trick to making impatience work for you is by recognizing that you will get something in the end – be it the outcome your envisioned, a slightly different version of the outcome, or even a lesson learned.

  1. Learn to make the ‘doldrums’ work for you. Starting a new project is always fun. At that stage, the motivation, action and momentum are all present to get things off to a galloping start. How we handle the ‘doldrums’ or the ‘dips’ in the process is what will determine the fate of our projects or businesses. These ‘doldrums’ refer to a series of challenges that block the path of your success. They signal the need for a change of strategy. It’s not time to give up yet! Just by learning to recognize the ‘doldrums’ can greatly improve your chance of success.
  2. The ‘doldrums’ is a brand-building opportunity. Turn your struggles into content. Turn your learnings into knowledge-sharing. Like an adventurer sharing his tales of surviving against the odds. People love that! This very act of sharing can provide value to others and drive more awareness to your business.
  3. Recognize that you can still pivot. Can you shift the audience? Shift the solution? Shift the problem you are solving? What’s to say that your expertise can only be used in just one way?

As always, a final caveat. Without the ability to see the full chart, I must stress that the suggestions in this article are broad recommendations based on a single pillar. To pinpoint specific issues or to co-create solutions tailor-made for you, please feel free to drop me a line.

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Author: Paulynne Cheng

A Business and Career Consultant-Coach who melds Chinese Metaphysics techniques with modern day Coaching to help you become the best that you can be. A lifelong reader who cannot imagine life without books; a 25-year Communications professional with an expertise in sports communications, sports marketing and broadcasting.

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