#27 GENG YIN (庚寅): THE GIFT OF COURAGE

What happens when you send a bulldozer into a forest? The bulldozer quickly makes short work of the trees, is what happens! That’s precisely the imagery conveyed by the Geng Yin (庚寅) – an intense image of Metal meeting Wood – a profile in Courage!

But let’s set the record straight here. Courage is not the absence of fear. Rather, it is the ability to act in spite of fear.

Maximizing The Geng Yin (庚寅): The Gift of Courage

When it comes to getting things done, the Geng Yin is bound to count as one of the frontrunners among the 60 Jia Zi pillars. From my introductory paragraph, had I just planted an image of a bulldozer in your head? If I had, then good! Let’s run with this!

Much like the example, the Geng Yin is all about being an efficient executioner. You will have a tendency to lower your head, set things into motion, and get things done by bulldozing past obstacles, objections and naysayers. That’s right, this noisy chatterbox of a pillar loves nothing more than challenges! To borrow a phrase from Adidas, in the Geng Yin’s world, impossible is nothing!

What makes the Geng Yin tick?

Let’s burrow in on the Geng Yin to get a better understanding of what makes this pillar tick.

In this case, the execution skills of the Geng Metal sits on a Jia Wood (甲) Indirect Wealth. As the Indirect Wealth is a forward-looking profile while Jia governs growth and development, this combination allows the Geng Yin to see future opportunities that can be shaped where others see present-day obstacles.

Having identified the opportunities, the Geng Yin will then start to take action by using its Bing Fire (丙) 7 Killings star. Here, the Bing Fire’s natural optimism and stick-to-itiveness is what helps the Geng Yin continue fighting the battle, even after everyone else had called it quits. (Side note: yes, stick-to-itiveness really is a word. I checked!)

And finally, the experiences gathered throughout the journey is incorporated broadly into the Wu Earth (戊) Indirect Resource which further produces the Geng Metal and helps you stand your ground and lends faith to your decisions.

When combined, these three key traits are the very elements of the courage represented by the Geng Yin pillar. The Geng Yin is one Day Master who will never shy away from hard work, believing that hardship builds character. The only drawback to this attitude? Don’t get stuck in the wrong fights!

Rein in that hyper-critical nature

While others easily see the talent and intelligence of the Geng Yin Day Master, they will frequently miss the sensitivity that exists below the surface. Geng Metals tend to show a rough and tough exterior, but isn’t it true that the hardest characters are the ones who are most emotionally vulnerable?

In the case of the Geng Yin Day Master, this sensitivity stems from a hyper-critical nature that is critical of others, and also of themselves. Reining in this aspect of the Geng Yin personality can truly help you become even more efficient and powerful.

Find your bullseye!

A final suggestion to unlock the extraordinary powers of the Geng Yin – get inspired and stay inspired! Like the bulldozer or the axe, the Geng Yin becomes truly awe-inspiring when you have a bullseye to aim for. Without this ‘bullseye’ target, the Geng Yin is like an axe swung aimlessly through the air.

Where is the Geng Yin (庚寅):
Leading With Courage: Geng Yin (庚寅): In the Year Pillar

Having the Geng Yin in the Year gives you the opportunity to lead by courage. The Year Pillar is our biggest pillar. This is the point of first impression, where people who have just met you form their opinion of you. Witty and vivacious, the Geng Yin has no problems getting attention. But it is when you display your courage through your actions, that is when you start to inspire and motivate other people to follow you.

Leading With Courage At Work: Geng Yin (庚寅): In the Month Pillar

A Geng Yin naturally gravitates to positions of power at work. Self-assured and determined, the Geng Yin pillar is never one to sit around waiting for things to happen. Here are some suggestions on how you can display leadership through courage at work:

  1. Hire a diverse team that don’t necessarily agree with you all the time. It takes courage to step our of your comfort zone and listen to others with an open mind.
  2. Challenge the status quo. It takes courage to offer different perspectives to stimulate new thinking at work.
  3. Set boundaries. You display courage when you take ownership of your work, by learning to help others grow through your successes and taking steps to rectify your mistakes.
Find and Display Courage : Geng Yin (庚寅): In the Hour Pillar

Geng Yin in the Hour Pillar may represent the fact that your subordinates, children or customers see you as an action-oriented and courageous person. On the other hand, it can also represent a courageous mindset.

Here are some ways you can find and display courage:

  1. Understand the cost of not taking action. Many people fear change because they are worried about the risks associated with taking action. However, many people rarely consider the cost of not taking action. This is the basic Yin-Yang principle that governs the art of Chinese Metaphysics. What will it cost us if we don’t take action to halt that downward spiral? What will it cost if we don’t become the person we need to be in order to live our best lives? By understanding the cost, we will find the courage to fuel the desire to get what you want most.
  2. ‘As if’ instead of ‘what if’. This step is best illustrated through an example. Let’s say… you are a banker who actually wants to become an artist. Even thinking about it makes your brain start spewing out all the reasons why a safe job in the bank is better than the unknown world of an artist. Start by acting ‘as if’ you are already an artist (while keeping your day job). Talk about it, blog about it, show your art to others, display your talent every opportunity you get. When you do this, it helps you reimagine your life and when the right opportunity comes at the right time, your brain is already primed to say ‘yes’ instead of ‘what if’.
  3. Create your team through commitment. A strange thing happens when you display your commitment to your goals. Suddenly, inspired by your courage, those who are invested in your success will rally around you to help make things happen. This process starts a momentum that can help propel you closer to your goal.

As always, a final caveat. Without the ability to see the full chart, I must stress that the suggestions in this article are broad recommendations based on a single pillar. To pinpoint specific issues or to co-create solutions tailor-made for you, please feel free to drop me a line.

Want to find out if you have the Geng Yin pillar somewhere in your chart? Plot your Bazi Chart with this free resource (registration required) https://bazibz.masteryacademy.com/.

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#26 JI CHOU (己丑): THE GIFT OF RESOURCEFULNESS

The Ji Chou (己丑) carries the image of dark, wet soil, packed with minerals, the very epitome of the gift of resourcefulness.

Maximizing The Ji Chou (己丑): The Gift of Resourcefulness

Let’s think about the picture that the Ji Chou presents for a minute. Winter comes to an end, the snows are receding. While patches of white snow still lies on the ground, most have been absorbed into the soil. This wet soil is almost ready to be tilled, waiting for the planting season. Rich in resources, the soil will grow a plentiful harvest. This is the resourcefulness of the Ji Chou pillar.

From a technical point of view, the Ji Chou sits on your own Friend Star, which imparts a high degree of confidence, independence and the predisposition to work well with others. The Ji Chou Day Master also sits on a high-quality Eating God star. This Xin metal Eating God star is the source of your originality and inventiveness.

The above traits, coupled with the absorbent nature of the Ji Earth, results in a resourceful and creative individual with a high level of acceptance as well as an easy-going and giving nature.

Did you know that the Ji Chou formation is also known as the Golden God Noble? This represents the gift of attracting noble people into your own life. And conversely, it also represents your ability to extend help to others when required. Because of this, the Ji Chou Day Master will never need to worry about not having enough resources to help you reach your goals.

However, this does not mean that the Ji Chou can sit back, relax and wait for success to come your way. Like the earth that needs to be tilled in order to be fruitful, success for the Ji Chou Day Master comes from putting your nose to the grindstone. It means consciously using your Friend star by growing your network, honing the creativity of your Eating God star, and harnessing the Gui Water Indirect Wealth’s ability to look beyond current trends to see the true potential of any given situation.

The Ji Chou’s biggest weakness is your inability to stick to the plan. Tantalized by new interests and new adventures, the Ji Chou can easily be derailed by a loss of focus. For the Ji Chou, having a detailed plan and the discipline to stick to the plan, will be the key to your success.  

Where is the Ji Chou (己丑)
Making Your Relationships Work For You: Ji Chou (己丑) In the Year Pillar

With Ji Chou in the Year Pillar, not only do others see you as a resourceful person, you also know plenty of similar resourceful people in your social orbit. Your friends view you as stimulating company, someone who never runs out of things to say.

As independent as the Ji Chou pillar can be, the ability to setup your connections in a way that will benefit your career or business is what will set you apart from your peers. These returns do not need to come in the form of money. It could be intangible things like referrals, social status or favours.

Resourcefulness At Work: Ji Chou (己丑) In the Month Pillar

A successful professional – whether an entrepreneur or a salaried employee – needs a wide range of traits to succeed. Among others, discipline, hard work, confidence, self-belief, and many more. But when it comes to achieving your professional goals, there is nothing quite like the ability to be resourceful.

Here, the Ji Chou’s ability to learn new information rapidly, your natural inquisitiveness and openness to new ideas, becomes a big advantage. Like any other skills, resourcefulness is something that can be developed. Here are three ways:

  1. Be open-minded. Use the accepting nature of the Ji Earth to open yourself to new possibilities and ideas.
  2. Think outside the box. Use the sharp acuity, ingenuity and imagination of the Xin Metal to its fullest potential.
  3. Take action now. Use the restlessness of the Gui Water in a positive way by learning to take pro-active action instead of postponing your success.
Armed With Knowledge : Ji Chou (己丑) In the Hour Pillar

It doesn’t matter if you are a business owner, a manager or a new employee looking to get ahead, a resourceful mindset can really set you apart. Truly resourceful people are constantly looking for creative ways to leverage their current situation for maximum benefit.

With the Ji Chou in the Hour Pillar, an attitude of lifelong learning will help you arm yourself with the knowledge you need to truly increase your ability to provide value and put you in demand.

A Final Caveat

As always, a final caveat. Without the ability to see the full chart, I must stress that the suggestions in this article are broad recommendations based on a single pillar. To pinpoint specific issues or to co-create solutions tailor-made for you, please feel free to drop me a line.

Want to find out if you have the Ji Chou pillar somewhere in your chart? Plot your Bazi Chart with this free resource (registration required) https://bazibz.masteryacademy.com/.

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#25 WU ZI (戊子): THE GIFT OF MYSTERY

Like a mist-covered mountain, the Wu Zi (戊子) pillar is one that is wreathed in mystery.

Maximizing The Wu Zi (戊子): The Gift of Mystery

One of the 6 Elegant Days, the Wu Zi day master is endowed with intelligence and elegance. Much like the Ding Hai pillar before this, here too, the Wu Earth Stem combines with the Gui Water in the Branch. When this combination happens, the outcome brings a strong sense of nobility and refinement to this Day Master.

Like all Wu Earth, the Wu Zi is very strong willed. Persistence and perseverance are the hallmark of the Wu Earth Day Masters. Sitting only on its Direct Wealth Star, the Wu Zi is relentlessly hardworking and a terrific problem solver.

But why did I use the gift of mystery to describe the Wu Zi pillar? Let’s think about this mountain for a minute. The mountain is always there, stolid, steadfast and unchanging. But what’s ever-changing is the ribbons of mist and clouds around it.

Because of the mist, the Wu Zi is a highly secretive individual, less given to speaking their mind. But this sense of enigmatic mystery works in the favour of the Wu Zi. It draws people to you and keeps them guessing and intrigued as they glimpse different facets of the Wu Zi personality.

This pillar is usually indicative of a higher power, or likes to play the role of the mastermind, hidden behind the scenes.

Where is the Wu Zi (戊子)
The Benefits Of Mystery: Wu Zi (戊子) In the Year Pillar

Yes, as it turns out, there are benefits of being enigmatic and mysterious. Who woulda thunk it, right?

The sense of mystery that the Wu Zi exudes draws attention and gives you an intimidating presence as a leader. In this case, the sheer unpredictability and contradictory nature of the Wu Zi compels people to pay attention, lest they miss out on what you might do next.  

Strong and independent, the Wu Zi is at its most comfortable around mentally stimulating individuals. You tend to draw smart and creative people into your circle, best if they challenge your intellect.

Terrific Problem Solvers At Work: Wu Zi (戊子) In the Month Pillar

Strong organizational skills, coupled with the many talents of the Wu Zi pillar results in a terrific problem solver at work. The Wu Zi pillar has a proclivity to working alone, but if you can keep the domineering and bossy side under control, will be able to achieve more success if they learn to work in partnerships or team work.

This is a highly ambitious pillar grounded with a practical worldview that is driven by knowledge.  In other words, at work, you are viewed as someone who is always reliable, hardworking and incredibly practical – a highly efficient team member with natural leadership abilities.

Emotional Equilibrium : Wu Zi (戊子) In the Hour Pillar

But beneath the positive outward appearance, there are some threats that need to be dealt with in this post.

The relative instability of this pillar manifests as a difficulty in controlling their emotions. It is entirely possible to find the Wu Zi battling low self-esteem at certain points in their lives. Learning to stay centered either through spiritual pursuits or self-awareness exercises would help you maintain your equilibrium.

As always, a final caveat. Without the ability to see the full chart, I must stress that the suggestions in this article are broad recommendations based on a single pillar. To pinpoint specific issues or to co-create solutions tailor-made for you, please feel free to drop me a line.

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#24 DING HAI (丁亥): THE GIFT OF INFLUENCE

If you want an example of the gift of influence from the Ding Hai (丁亥) pillar, then look no further than the present day motivational guru, Tony Robbins. This American motivational speaker, author and philanthropist is the perfect example of how a Ding Hai Day Master can turn their mission to spread hope into a successful life.

Maximizing The Ding Hai (丁亥): The Gift of Influence

Remember that final scene from the Disney animation Tangled? When thousands of lanterns are released into the air and onto the sea surrounding the island nation of Corona? Was it not beautiful? Was it not mesmerizing? That’s the visual representation of the Ding Hai – the glittering moonlight, starlight and lantern light reflected off the surface of the water. It’s the extraordinary power to influence and mesmerize.

Tony Robbins is not the first Ding Hai to have reached cult-like status. When the Ding Hai learns to positively influence those around them, they have the power to create positive change to society.

Sitting on its own Direct Officer star, the Ding Hai is considered as one of the Loyal Pillars. The Ding Fire is further supported by its Direct Resource star, resulting in a cultured, educated and good-natured individual.

But more than that, the Ding Hai is truly a special pillar. How special? Let me count the ways:

  1. In this case, the Ding Fire Stem combines with the Ren Water in the Branch. The outcome of this combination brings in more Resource elements to support the Day Master. The result is a highly intuitive, intelligent and extremely talented individual.
  2. This Ding Fire Day Master sits on its own Nobleman Star. In this particular circumstance, the Nobleman Star will instil a sense of responsibility on the Day Master to spread light and hope as far as they possibly can. Yet at the same time, as they give, so they receive. The more the Ding Hai helps others, the more mentors and helpful people will arrive in their lives.
  3. This Ding Fire Day Master sits on a Ren Water travelling star. This gives them the extraordinary skill to connect, en-masse, with the public.

If you are a Ding Hai Day Master, my best advice to you is to embrace life-long learning. This is the key to the success of the Ding Hai pillar. Why? The Ding Hai can be as generous and giving as the Bing Xu pillar in my previous post. However, unlike the self-sustaining Bing sitting on a resourceful Wu Earth, the Ding Fire requires constant fuel in order to burn bright.

Lacking ‘grounding’ in the form of the Earth element, an unfocused Ding Hai could easily lose their sense of direction and go with the flow of peer pressure.

It’s a rare day that I will write about relationship aspects of the 60 pillars. But in this case, I will… with a note of caution. The giving nature of the Ding Hai may have you so invested in the well-being of others, that your own relationships are sacrificed upon the altar of the greater good. You could get so caught up in your mission to impact lives that you may neglect the lives closest to you. So make it a point to schedule time with those whom you hold dearest.  

People are not lazy. They simply have impotent goals – that is, goals that do not inspire them.

Tony Robbins
Where is the Ding Hai (丁亥)
Influence At Play: Ding Hai (丁亥) In the Year Pillar

The Year Pillar, which governs one’s industry, social networks, and the word at large is also a great place for the Ding Hai pillar. Here, the hidden pull combination that attracts the Wu (午) branch literally bring friends and fans into your circle.

If the Ding Hai is not your Day Master, but instead is found in your Year Pillar, make a conscious effort to reach out and connect with as many different types of circles as possible.

At the same time, you need to be aware of the two distinct sides of the Ding Hai’s personality. The Ding Fire being a rather erratic element, much like a candle flame that flickers, can be practical and focused one minute, and then restless and undisciplined the next. The fire can go from being gregarious to cold and uncaring in the space of a breath. Awareness is the key here. You need to have the ability to recognize when the flame is going out, in a manner of speaking.

Ambitious At Work: Ding Hai (丁亥) In the Month Pillar

The Ding Hai’s drive and ambition shines through in the Month Pillar. Here, the originality of the Ding Hai results in a very creative strategist with the broad ability to stay ahead of trends and the attention to detail to make improvements on existing system.

Any career that utilizes the inherent power of persuasion that is a part of the Ding Hai DNA as well as its flair for the dramatic and charisma will be the ideal platform for the Ding Hai to shine.

Introspective At Heart : Ding Hai (丁亥) In the Hour Pillar

The Ding Hai pillar turns introspective when located in the Hour Pillar. Here, the light shining off the waters suggests an individual who can seek enlightenment through self-reflection.

In the Hour Pillar, the Ding Hai brings a gift of strong intuition and the key to using this pillar will be to learn to hone that power to identify the right time, the right method and the right platform to achieve your goals.

The caution here is to be wary of becoming over eager or over-enthusiastic. Like the candle that wants to light a million others, the Ding Hai must always be careful not to spread yourself too thin, else risk the danger of burning out.

As always, a final caveat. Without the ability to see the full chart, I must stress that the suggestions in this article are broad recommendations based on a single pillar. To pinpoint specific issues or to co-create solutions tailor-made for you, please feel free to drop me a line.

Want to find out if you have the Ding Hai pillar somewhere in your chart? Plot your Bazi Chart with this free resource (registration required) https://bazibz.masteryacademy.com/.

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#23 BING XU (丙戌): THE GIFT OF GENEROSITY

The selfless magnanimity of the Bing Fire coupled with the steadfast abundance of Wu Earth, the Bing Xu (丙戌) is all about the gift of generosity.

For those of us who have been privileged to visit the Alps, there is a unique sunset phenomenon called Alpenglow. The sun is nowhere on the horizon, yet the white-capped mountains are illuminated with a rosy tinge. It’s a picture that is evocative, mystical, and yes, romantic. This phenomenon, the Alpenglow, is the very picture presented by the Bing Xu pillar.

Maximizing The Bing Xu (丙戌): The Gift of Generosity

The Bing Fire Day Master is often described as someone persistently magnanimous, giving, selfless and generous. Toiling for the greater good at the heart of their community is where the Bing Xu will truly excel.

Seated on its own Eating God, this Bing Fire’s natural giving nature is augmented by a strong sense of child-like idealism and creativity. At the same time, this Bing Fire holds the toughness of a strong taskmaster with the ability to execute with precision, and the diplomatic yet caring leadership to inspire others to push through the rough patches. In short, the Bing Xu is a Day Master with a lot to give.

If there was one weakness of the Bing Xu pillar, it is a particular resistance to change. Anchored by the Wu Earth, failure is not an option for this persistent and routine-loving Bing Fire. The innate positivity of the Bing Fire allows the Bing Xu to recover quickly from any setback. And like the sun rising on the horizon every day, the routine-loving Bing will be back to tackle the obstacles again and again and again.

For this reason, Bing Fire individuals are always advised to regularly review their plans to make sure that the battles they are fighting are still relevant to their goals. In other words, don’t fight just for the sake of fighting.

In a world that is often dominated by the poverty mindset, the Bing Xu is naturally clued in on the benefits of generosity. Social scientists have long found that people who generously give their time, money and abilities are healthier, happier and more confident that those who do not. Being generous is a gift that keeps on giving, benefitting not just the receiver but also the giver. It prevents depression, makes you more socially networked and physically active. And there is strong neurological science behind that discovery. Acting generously causes neurochemical changes in the brain that brings out the pleasure response and create an upward spiral for the giver.

Where is the Bing Xu (丙戌)
Generosity At Play: Bing Xu (丙戌) In the Year Pillar

Like how humans have been drawn to the mountains over the aeons, the Bing Xu draws people into their sphere of influence by sheer magnetism and force of personality. Outgoing and friendly, deeply compassionate and highly sensitive to nuances, the Bing Xu must learn to stay grounded in the face of peer pressure and learn to balance their powerful emotions.

A warm-hearted and loyal friend, the Bing Xu is the rock that people will lean on in times of trouble and don’t be surprised to find yourself as the confidant for many.

Giving is a surefire way to get you out of your own doldrums. By getting out of your own head and shifting the focus on others, you step away from your own issues and learn to view it from a different perspective.

Generosity At Work: Bing Xu (丙戌) In the Month Pillar

Bing Xu in the Month Pillar sees a perfectionist who is compelled to achieve greatness through optimism and ambition. This multi-talented pillar needs to be challenged in order to truly flourish. These challenges are necessary to bring out the resourcefulness of the Wu Earth, the strategic precision of the Xin Metal and the illuminating leadership of the Ding Fire.

Here in the Month Pillar, the Bing Xu’s natural resistance to change can be effectively countered by its own generosity. Generous behaviour often requires moving beyond our comfort zone and developing new skills. This will allow you to see yourself as an agent of change, as opposed to being a recipient of change. This important yet imperceptible shift of perspective is particularly valuable for the Bing Xu individual who is driven by the need for security.

5 Basic Steps To An Abundant Mindset: Bing Xu (丙戌) In the Hour Pillar

For all the Bing Xu’s ambition and drive, this pillar has a sensitive and dreamy quality to it, much like the dream-like picture of the Alpenglow. It craves security and dislikes the harshness of the world. The Bing Xu in the Hour Pillar denotes a rich fantasy life powered by a strong imagination.

With the Bing Xu in your Hour Pillar, cultivating an abundant mindset comes naturally. Here are five basic steps that are aligned to the characteristics of the pillar:

  1. Acknowledge the power of your thoughts – take time to notice the type of thoughts circulating in your head. Are they positive? Or are they telling you that you cannot? By creating awareness around the buzz in your head, you can begin to make conscious effort to shift the tone of that inner voice.
  2. Gratitude – this simple trick of keeping a daily gratitude journal has been circulating for quite a while. It’s a powerful and widely recognized tool to create abundance and happiness. To quote Oprah Winfrey, “If you look at what you have in life, you will always have more. If you look at what you don’t have in life, you will never have enough.”
  3. Believe that there are no limits – this step requires taking a few minutes each day for quiet and peacefulness. The intention is to clear your mind and allow for new abundant possibilities. The goal is to foster an expanded awareness instead of constantly focusing on just one particular thing.
  4. Sharing your purpose and passions – learning to share your gifts and provide value by serving those who would benefit most has a great side-effect. It helps you create an abundant personal brand.
  5. Notice the good – this step aims to take us away from our basic human instinct to notice the bad. We are all wired to see problems quicker than we can see possibilities. It’s just the way of evolution. In Step 5, instead of focusing on the problem and trying to fix it, focus instead on what is actually going right as it relates to the topic and find a way to support that even further.

As always, a final caveat. Without the ability to see the full chart, I must stress that the suggestions in this article are broad recommendations based on a single pillar. To pinpoint specific issues or to co-create solutions tailor-made for you, please feel free to drop me a line.

Want to find out if you have the Bing Xu pillar somewhere in your chart? Plot your Bazi Chart with this free resource (registration required) https://bazibz.masteryacademy.com/.

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#22 YI YOU (乙酉): THE GIFT OF STRATEGIC NETWORKING

The gift of strategic networking is of course, not merely confined to the Yi You (乙酉) pillar. Anyone of the 60 pillars can learn this art. But the Yi You, soft and weak on the outside, but possessing of an inner drive and action-oriented approach, perfectly embodies this ability.

In this weeks’ post, let’s explore the many facets of strategic networking. But brace yourself, this will be a long read ahead. I will do away from my usual format of Year, Month, Day and Hour for this post. Wherever the Yi You is to be found in your chart, you already have the natural gift of strategic networking. Even if you don’t have the Yi You in your chart, it can be learned.

Maximizing The Yi You (乙酉): The Gift of Strategic Networking

The Yi You is usually likened to a man-made plant-like ornament or a potted plant. Sitting only on its 7 Killings star, this Yi Wood is unrooted. This elegant Yi Wood looks sophisticated and non-threatening but is capable of combining the swiftness of wood with the precision of metal in its modus operandi.

From a classical point of view, this could be detrimental as it is equated with guile and deception. But again I must ask, is guile and deception always a bad thing? Before we judge, how about we replace those two words with one that is prized in today’s world – strategic?

Cleverness certainly plays a major role in making optimum use of the Yi You pillar. Honing this sharp mental acuity is how the Yi You survives in what it perceives to be a dog-eat-dog world. But honing cleverness is not enough. Being a rootless pillar, there is always a danger of becoming too fickle. Self-imposed discipline is needed here, in liberal doses if required, to boost the cleverness with perseverance and determination.

Like a vine latching on to a building, a tree or a stick to climb closer to the sun, the Yi You is naturally attracted to the limelight, and most of all, to successful people. This strategic approach will mean that people tend to wander in and out of your orbit, depending on the role they play in your current plans. However, this ability of the Yi Wood to prop itself up by relying on other elements, is exactly what strategic networking is all about.

Strategic Networking: It’s Not About Being Manipulative

Let’s clear a common misconception about networking here. Networking is not an insincere or manipulative way to elegantly use people. It’s about creating a web of personal contacts who provide the feedback, support, information, resources and insight that all of us need to grow.

This discomfort around strategic networking is perfectly understandable. Society has taught us to rise through the ranks by dint of task-based accomplishments. Strategic networking requires relational, instead of transactional, tasks.

Strategic networking is more than just a case of mutual back-scratching. Instead, the Harvard Business Review has identified three distinct but interdependent forms of networking – operational, personal and strategic.

Three Types of Strategic Networking
Operational Networking

Operational networking is the most common form of networking. This is about how you get your job done. The depth and scope of this network can differ, but includes direct reports, superiors, peers, other internal forces that can expedite or block a project, as well as outside forces like customers, distributors or suppliers.

The purpose of this network, as mentioned, is to get things done. It is not concerned with what should be done. All of us have operational networks. These relationships are forced based on the tasks required and tend to be constrained by the job at hand.

In a Bazi coaching session, when we start talking about the need to expand on networking, many people will automatically assume that they should improve on their operational network. But for the coaching session to take effect, as a person grows, his or her network must be recalibrated externally and become more future-oriented.

Which leads us to the next point…

Personal Networking

The Harvard Business Review defines Personal Networking as ‘professional associations, alumni groups, clubs, and personal interest communities through which a person gain new perspectives that allow them to advance in their careers.’

Which begs the question – why should you waste precious time on an activity that is not directly related with what you need to do? After all, there’s barely enough time in the day to clear your own deck.

This personal network is where the bulk of your developmental support (think: coaching or mentoring), information and referrals will come from.

Remember the six-degrees of separation theory? That is what the personal network is all about – it is composed of acquaintances with whom we have something in common. This personal network forms the base for the next and ultimate step, Strategic Networking.

Strategic Networking

This final stage is comprised of lateral and vertical relationships with people outside of our immediate control. The role of this network is to figure out how our own contributions fit into the big picture.

At this stage, the task of the Strategic Network is to help formulate broad business objectives. It is no longer concerned about functional objectives. The value of being plugged into a Strategic Network is to get keyed in on shifting business trends.

Strategic Networking is about influence. The ability to leverage the resources, information and support from one sector of the network to achieve results in another. Instead of merely influencing their environment, the smart Strategic Networker strives to mould it to become favourable to their own goals.

A Last Word on Strategic Networking

The topic of strategic networking is very closely related to the topic of Noble Persons in the study of Bazi. At the end of the day, it’s about the same thing – someone coming to you with the information or resource you need to move you one step closer to your goal.

With or without the Yi You in your chart, this is a skill that can be learnt. To start, learn to serve. Remember, strategic networking is a two-way street. In order to get, you must first give.

As always, a final caveat. Without the ability to see the full chart, I must stress that the suggestions in this article are broad recommendations based on a single pillar. To pinpoint specific issues or to co-create solutions tailor-made for you, please feel free to drop me a line.

Want to find out if you have the Yi You pillar somewhere in your chart? Plot your Bazi Chart with this free resource (registration required) https://bazibz.masteryacademy.com/.

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#19 REN WU (壬午): THE GIFT OF IMPATIENCE

Water at the top, fire at the bottom. What do you get? A geyser, of course, which perfectly represents the energies of the Ren Wu (壬午) pillar. Impulsive, impetuous, and yes, impatient.

Wait a minute, I hear you say. Impatience is a gift? For the longest time, impatience has been given a bad rep. But if tamed and leveraged, it can be one of the best inspiring factors behind your success.

Maximizing The Ren Wu (壬午) Day Master: 5 Steps To Make Impulsiveness Work For You

The Ren Wu individual is like a gushing hot spring filled with passion, intelligence and creativity. This is a pillar where the naturally resourceful nature of the Ren Water combines with the passion and detail-oriented approach of the Ding Fire.

Very receptive to new ideas, this pillar represents ambitious visionaries who dream big and have the resources and organizational skills to make things happen. The Ren Wu is seated on its own Direct Wealth and Direct Officer stars which blesses the pillar with strong business acumen and the ability to wield authority.

But for all its strengths (intelligence, creativity, strong intuition, business acumen and organizational skills), the Ren Wu has got one big Achilles Heel – it’s impulsivity. Yup, it’s that moment when the pressure builds up and the day master explodes like a geyser. But hang on a second. There’s a big difference between Functional Impulsivity versus Dysfunctional Impulsivity.

Functional Impulsivity refers to the ability to act swiftly and seize the opportunities that come your way. Conversely, Dysfunctional Impulsivity leads to erratic behaviour and losing control. In other words, dysfunctional impulsivity are spur-of-the-moment decisions that are not moderated by forethought and logic.

Therefore, the key to maximizing the Ren Wu Day Master, lies in the ability to turn dysfunctional impulsivity into functional impulsivity. Here are five steps:

  1. Increase self-awareness by becoming aware of situations that result in impulsivity. In other words, learn to recognize and understand your triggers.
  2. Once you spot your triggers, give yourself a self-imposed time-out to put some space between yourself and the event.
  3. Find a balancing partner who can help curb those spur-of-the-moment decisions by offering a different perspective.
  4. Put alternative strategies in place. Let me give you an example here. If you have a tendency to blurt out your thoughts in a meeting, try writing them down in a notebook instead. Basically, this step refers to small actions that can modify your behaviour and allow you time to evaluate.
  5. Relax! Realize that impulsive thoughts are never the problem, impulsive actions are.
Where Is The Ren Wu (壬午)?
Spontaneous and Gregarious (Ren Wu In The Year Pillar):

The Ren Wu pillar likes to be surrounded by people. Spontaneous and gregarious, your external circle will perceive you as someone who is always up for an adventure. One of the most outstanding qualities of the Ren Wu is their silver tongue. Know that this pillar has given you a smooth and subtle way of easing people into the comfort zone while engaging in conversation. Now isn’t that a great gift to have?

Challenge Slayer (Ren Wu In The Month Pillar):

Don’t shy away from challenges if you have the Ren Wu in your month pillar. Driven by passion and a thirst for power, wisdom and knowledge, the Ren Water brings the ability to overcome obstacles with determination. You are a person with the resources to undertake any project that stimulates your intellect.

Dynamic and pragmatic at the same time, never doubt the ability of the Ren Wu to slay any challenges in their way.

Making Impatience Work For You (Ren Wu In The Hour Pillar)

Let’s stop looking at impatience as something that needs to be curbed. Instead, let’s look at impatience as something that we can leverage of.

Here’s the thing, patience is easy to adhere to if there is a guarantee at the end. For example, you’ve ordered something online and you know from experience that it will be a couple of days before it reaches your doorstep. It’s not so easy when the goal has not been achieved before.

By that logic, the trick to making impatience work for you is by recognizing that you will get something in the end – be it the outcome your envisioned, a slightly different version of the outcome, or even a lesson learned.

  1. Learn to make the ‘doldrums’ work for you. Starting a new project is always fun. At that stage, the motivation, action and momentum are all present to get things off to a galloping start. How we handle the ‘doldrums’ or the ‘dips’ in the process is what will determine the fate of our projects or businesses. These ‘doldrums’ refer to a series of challenges that block the path of your success. They signal the need for a change of strategy. It’s not time to give up yet! Just by learning to recognize the ‘doldrums’ can greatly improve your chance of success.
  2. The ‘doldrums’ is a brand-building opportunity. Turn your struggles into content. Turn your learnings into knowledge-sharing. Like an adventurer sharing his tales of surviving against the odds. People love that! This very act of sharing can provide value to others and drive more awareness to your business.
  3. Recognize that you can still pivot. Can you shift the audience? Shift the solution? Shift the problem you are solving? What’s to say that your expertise can only be used in just one way?

As always, a final caveat. Without the ability to see the full chart, I must stress that the suggestions in this article are broad recommendations based on a single pillar. To pinpoint specific issues or to co-create solutions tailor-made for you, please feel free to drop me a line.

Want to find out if you have the Ren Wu pillar somewhere in your chart? Plot your Bazi Chart with this free resource (registration required) https://bazibz.masteryacademy.com/.

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XIN WEI (辛未): MORE THAN MEETS THE EYE

MAXIMIZE EVERY PILLAR #8

In Bazi consults and writing in this blog, I try very hard to stay neutral. I honestly believe that the strength/weakness spectrum is often a matter of perspective and it is not my place to impose judgement or values on a chart. For example, the resilience of the Yi Chou (乙丑) pillar can be both a strength and a weakness, depending on how the trait is used. Similarly, the thespian-like characteristics to the Wu Chen (戊辰) pillar can result in a very classy person if activated properly or just a downright drama-queen. But every once in a while, a pillar comes along that tests my resolve to stay neutral to the limit. The Xin Wei (辛未) pillar is one of them.

I’ve thought long and hard on how best to structure this post. It quickly became obvious that my preferred structure of using the location of the pillar is not going to work this time.

Let’s start with the obvious. All Xin Metals love being in the spotlight. For the majority of Xin Metals, commanding attention is as natural as breathing. But there is one particular Xin Metal type who will find it a little hard to shine. This is the Xin Wei pillar. 

What Happens When The Xin Wei Is Not Used Properly

Allow me to spend three paragraphs on the negative aspects of this pillar. Because it is important. But bear with me for just a little while, because the Xin Wei is absolutely more than meets the eye.

Think of buried treasure that had just been excavated from the ground. This pillar calls to mind the image of the Terracotta Warriors in China. The gleam and sparkle of the precious metals and gems, caked with earth and covered with dust. The pillar appears to be unrefined on the surface. I stress, appears to be.

What this means is that, if you have Xin Wei anywhere in your Bazi Chart, people may view you as a dull and drab person. While conflicting outward persona and true inner personalities can be a big advantage for many day masters, this is a source of emotional insecurity and inner conflict for the fame-loving Xin Wei.

Unchecked, these self-image issues may manifest as a conniving personality with an insatiable appetite for power. It would be a pity if this were to happen because the Xin Wei has so much going for them.

Now For The Good

The key to making the most of the Xin Wei pillar is to adopt an attitude of non-comparison with others. When you can accept that everyone has a different measure of success, you can focus on what’s good in the Xin Wei.

Endowed with a sharp entrepreneurial instinct with an unerring eye for unique opportunities, the Xin Wei is also shrewd, given to quickly assess the situations and people around them. This quality gives you an instinctive understanding of the needs and motivations of others, and the ability to turn group dynamics to your advantage.

Highly intelligent, this pillar has the business sense, executive abilities and drive to turn ideas into tangible reality.

In short, if you are a Xin Wei Day Master, I want you to know that you are supported by the inner drive, instinct and flexibility to succeed without relying on external presentations. Stay focused on your abilities, to hell with what other people think.

Maximizing The Xin Wei Pillar: Different Strokes for Different Folks

The optimum use of the Xin Wei pillar differs from one day master to another. Wood Day Masters can best use the Xin Wei by focusing on knowledge and hard work.

Fire Day Masters should try to create order in their lives to avoid impulsive and reckless action. Instead, focus on using self-discipline to channel your creativity. Create a plan of action and stick to it.

Earth Day Masters will need to tap into their well of self-confidence and organizational abilities to make full use of a Xin Wei pillar.

For the Metal Day Masters with Xin Wei in their charts, the key lies in bolstering your creativity through enhanced knowledge. As a side note, we are currently undergoing a period of time where Water Qi is at its strongest. Metal is polished by Water. In the example given above, how do you bring gleam back to newly unearthed antiques? Well, first, you need to wash the dust off. In other words, Xin Metal Day Masters, this is your time to shine.

Finally, the Water Day Masters will find it easiest to make the best use of a Xin Wei pillar. The Day Master has the ability to naturally polish the Xin Wei to allow the pillar to shine through. Learning the art of compromising will turn the negative aspects of manipulative tendencies into the positive manifestation of shrewdness.

As always, a final caveat. Without the ability to see the full chart, I must stress that the suggestions in this article are broad recommendations based on a single pillar. To pinpoint specific issues or to co-create solutions tailor-made for you, please feel free to drop me a line.

Want to find out if you have the Xin Wei pillar somewhere in your chart? Plot your Bazi Chart with this free resource (registration required) https://bazibz.masteryacademy.com/.

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A PICTURE OF YOU

I’ve… got a picture of you in my mind!

90s boybands aside, this is actually how a Bazi Consultant decodes your Destiny Chart. Here’s a sample of a Bazi Chart:

Looks intimidating, doesn’t it? That’s what we, your Bazi Consultants, are here for!

Here’s what we see:

So apart from having a lovely picture to hang on your wall, what goes does it do? Let me answer that in one word: Clarity!

Before I go any further, let me debunk some popular myths here – your Bazi Consultants are not fortune tellers. What we look for is the true capacity or potential of the Chart, and correspondingly, the owner of the Chart. We look into the character of the person and how this drives his or her emotions, decisions and actions, which further affects the outcomes in his or her life.

Decoding the chart provides personal clarity.

Armed with that information, the person, if he or she so chooses, can dictate the outcome by changing any one of the three. Will it be easy? That depends. Problems and opportunities are two sides of the same coin.